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How To Use DISCerning Communication To Deal With Difficult People Challenges
Here is a different strategy for relating to difficult people.
Firstly, appreciate that many difficult situation challenges are really DISCerning Communication issues. The difficulties are largely a clash of behavioural styles.
When we recognize that difficulties are a conflict of behavioural preferences we are able to apply proven strategies to resolve them. However, if we tie the difficult situation challenges to the individual then it is more challenging to find answers.
A Map of Behavioural Preferences
Dominance, Inducement, Steadiness and Conscientiousness (DISC)
To get a better sense of how behavioural styles confuse communication we take a few examples from Dominant Style traits.
Others interpret “Direct” as blunt, undiplomatic and insensitive
“Decisive” gets translated as rash and reluctant to conduct proper analysis
“Independent” is viewed as being selfish and not a team player.
What happens when we use DISCerning Communication?
Let Don represent Dominance and Susan represent Steadiness and examine their perspective on “Direct”.
Johnny (colleague) has a problem with body odour. Don’s approach is to place his arm around Johnny’s shoulder and speak directly to the BO challenge advising that this brand of deodorant could solve the problem.
Susan reflects for a long time on how to get the message across to Johnny without hurting his feelings. Finally, she devices some subtle approach to give Johnny a hint.
Susan thinks Don’s approach is insensitive. It will hurt Johnny’s feeling.
Don thinks Susan’s approach takes forever while she devises her diplomacy. In the end, Johnny might even miss the message.
This brings their communication to a difference of approach rather than a personal issue.
We can disagree but it is on the grounds of approach not annoying personal flaws. We open our minds to the possibility that there may be an alternative point of view. There is a tendency to be less emotional in those circumstances.
Let us review an Inducement-Style case
Team members who have a preference for the I-style are often simultaneously the source of great pleasure and immense frustration.
Reliability is the major issue for others. “But you said you would……” is a recurring phrase.
Here is a radically different perspective that might save you from pulling out more hair.
Our DISCerning Communication skills inform us that a feature of the I-Style is the desire to please. They seek success with and through people.
Given the need to please others, there is a tendency to say “Yes” readily.
There is also their need for interaction.
Let’s use Ivan as an example. You ask him to do you a favour and he says “Sure.” What are Ivan’s realities?
He has a full time job, is President of his Citizens Association, Vice President with responsibilities for Member Issues at his Service Club, enrolled in evening classes…….. Honestly, where would Ivan find the time to carry out your favour?
The bottom line is that people using the I-Style have a tendency to over-commit. Their desire to please and to connect makes them want to serve. We poke fun at Ivan by noting that when he says “Consider it done”, he instantly considers it as having been done.
How does DISCerning Communication help?
DISCerning Communication makes a difference.
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Trevor E S Smith is a Behaviour Modification Coach with the Success with People Academy.
My 2+ granddaughter makes it clear when I can sing along and when I am to be silent. I discern that compliance is required.
Discernment enhances inter-personal relations and effective leadership. This is wrapped up in an approach that I call DISCerning Communication.
The concept incorporates behavioural preferences. Questions about the value and validity of classifying behavioural styles have been raised.
Reference to an analogy of clothing preferences puts the issue into correct perspective. In reality, behavioural preferences are directly equivalent to our taste in clothes. We can put on or take off shades at will. At the same time, our library of photos will reveal a shade preference.
I have a preference for wearing blue. However, a pitfall would be to label me as a blue-shirt man. I am not wed to blue and wear other colours.
It is beneficial for the clothing store owner to know that there are people who have a preference for blue so as stock accessories and variations to satisfy them. However, it would be an error to confine their dealings with me to only items of blue. I might be seeking to diversify my wardrobe or could be encouraged to try on something new.
The fundamental principle is the need to separate the behaviour from the person.
The store owner should handle demonstrated blue shirt preference by showing things that go along with blue shirts. However, she should treat theindividual with an open mind, not knowing what they might want this time. Once the customer indicates a preference then the owner should roll out the things that are best suited to that style.
This approach dramatically improves the capacity of the store owner to satisfy customers. She identifies the cross-section of preferences that she will serve and works out how to best serve the needs of each preference. She does not need to be concerned that customers might have complex tastes. She focuses on learning to discern when a preference that she has classified is displayed and roll out her tested strategy for satisfying the identified needs.
Now, it could be that in a single encounter, the customer displays different – even conflicting – preferences. That is fine. Be clear about which preference is being addressed at any point in time and present the solution that meets those needs. Then move to the next.
The challenge we have created with behavioural classifications comes from the need to affix labels on others. The store staff says here comes blue-preference Trevor and shuts down every other expectation of my behaviour. Then when I am drawn to the flaming red turtleneck there is shock and their faith in the classification concept is dented. Focus on behaviours not on individuals!
Properly defined the behavioural classifications are consistent. People are not. Learn to identify behaviours and how best to respond to or manage them and life’s journey is a lot easier to navigate.
Step 1: Master the descriptors of the classification framework such that you can distinguish among behaviours (not people!).
Step 2: Learn how to get best results in relating to each category in the framework.
Step 3: Discern when each category is being displayed and apply the ideal strategy from Step 2.
That is the real value of behavioural classifications – facilitating inter-personal relationships. Stapling types as labels on the foreheads of others is misuse.
Avoid relying on “He is X”; “You are Y”; “I am Z” use of classifications!
Inserting the word using makes all the difference in the world. “He is using X” alerts me to use X appropriate responses. I am also open to the possibility that he could shift to using Z at any time and I am flexible to apply suitable Z strategies.
However, the question remains: Is the store owner who invests in having customers fill out a questionnaire that highlights their preferences wasting time and money?
Not at all and here is why.
The store owner soon realizes that the range of preferences could be reduced to a manageable number of classifications. For simplicity here, she realizes that at its core her customers have a prevailing preference for variations of red, yellow, green, blue.
She uses that understanding to learn everything about relating to the nuances of each category (colour) and meeting their needs. She figures that showing blue might attract my interest but the minute I signal I am into red today, she rolls out her red sales plan.
The beauty of behaviour-based discernment is that the owner has the flexibility to deal effectively with both old and new customers. She discerns what’s going on with each customer in this moment and acts accordingly. DISCerning Communication works!
Next time, we discuss the value of behavioural classification frameworks in leading others.
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Trevor E S Smith is a Behaviour Modification Coach with the Success with People Academy which is recognized by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) to offer Professional Development Credits (PDCs) for the SHRM-CPSM or SHRM-SCPSM Certifications.
How To Deal With Cliques: A Mathematical Formula For Great Teamwork III
We are using the BOMDAS formula to strengthen teamwork.
BOMDAS is an acronym for Brackets| Of | Multiplication | Division |Addition | Subtraction
Under Brackets we established that Belonging is essential if the team is to achieve high levels of success – in our homes, in our workplaces, and in any group. We placed responsibility for achieving bonding and cohesiveness on the shoulders of the Team Leader.
While the brackets signify inclusion, they also indicate that some things should be kept separate. Including what should be excluded produces the wrong result!
Leaders must exclude anything that negatively impacts their teams.
Culprit #1: Cliques or Informal sub-groups
Among the greatest challenges to the smooth running of a group is the presence of a clique. The clique is a small set within the group that looks to a source other than the official leader for leadership. Cliques have the tendency to undermine the influence of the team leader — deliberately or as a by-product of their agenda.
What can a team leader do to limit the influence of cliques?
The first thing to note is that a clique should not be ignored as it could present a major challenge if allowed to grow in influence.
Note also that threats, ostracism, imposing muzzling rules and any method that relies on coercion will not produce sustained positive results. At best they drive the clique underground and set the stage for guerrilla warfare.
A clique exists because there is the perception of unmet needs – voices not being heard; unhappy with treatment or an aspiration for a greater share of power etc.
A leader’s effectiveness is enhanced by their capacity to uncover unfulfilled needs and then address them to the satisfaction or acceptance of the affected parties.
Here are some steps in your plan to address the challenge of a clique within your group:
Step 1: Review the issue of shared vision, goals and objectives.
You should recognize that the quality of the information received from this exercise is directly related to the environment that has been created. Where there is low trust and a sense that leadership is not committed to the empowerment of team members, people are likely to suppress their true feelings. No matter who is responsible, as leader you must sell “I am different. This initiative is different”.
Step 2: Camp out on identified shared objectives
Place laser-focus on things held in common.
Effective leaders latch on to 2 – 3 shared objectives. They then package and sell them such that they are seen as the glue that holds the team together. If the objective is to win the Gold Medal in the relay then get the stars to run their assigned leg without fuss.
Leaders in every sphere must meet the challenge of identifying goals and objectives that can serve as the glue that holds the group together. When teams are guided into uniting around shared purpose their capacity for high performance is unlimited.
But it is not all milk and honey.
One particularly difficult clique arises when someone believes that they are better equipped to lead the group or for some reason refuses to embrace the leadership of the official leader. Ostracizing that individual and their supporters does not provide a sustained solution. Finding a mutually acceptable role for the individual in the process is a more viable solution. Reconcile rather than exile!
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Trevor E S Smith is a Behaviour Modification Coach with the Success with People Academy which is recognized by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) to offer Professional Development Credits (PDCs) for the SHRM-CPSM or SHRM-SCPSM Certifications.
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At school I learned the life-saving BOMDAS formula without which solving Algebra problems would be impossible.
The order of operation should be:
Brackets | Of | Multiplication | Division | Addition | Subtraction
Here is an example:
Solve: 7 + (6 + 3) x 5 – 4 ÷ 2
Step 1 [Brackets]: 7+ 9 x 5 – 4 ÷ 2
Step 2 [Multiplication & Division]: 7 + 45 – 2
Step 3 [Addition]: 52 – 2
Step 4 [Subtraction]: 50
Answer = 50
I want to explore with you its application in the realm of teamwork and healthy relationships. Applying the BOMDAS rules creatively could help address some of the challenges that produce a lack of cooperation in groups at a time when effective teamwork is critical for success.
Brackets
The brackets represent both inclusion and exclusion. It indicates that the things within the brackets have something in common that sets them apart from things outside. It also dictates that the things within the brackets should be given similar treatment.
Let’s now take the leap from the abstract to the real live challenge of working cohesively with others.
The first concept is “Belonging”.
One common problem in dysfunctional teams is the failure of members to identify with the team. They don’t see themselves as being part of the whole that is bonded by common objectives and shared goals.
The brackets say – there is a bond that ties us together. The on the ground reality is that many speak of their teams in terms of they instead of we.
Other tell-tale signs that the brackets are meaningless include the fact that team successes are not celebrated as personal successes. It is like a disgruntled player coming home to report that they won the match. After investigation you realize that it is actually his team that won. From the bench he does not see himself as belonging in the team and so he refers to his team as they.
Today’s crisis of low employee engagement has some of its roots in the fact that some team members feel like bystanders rather than being actively engaged in the field of play.
Do a bit of investigative work over the next days and listen carefully to the dialogue of colleagues – your team and other groups. See how often you can detect pride in the accomplishments of the group to which the individual belongs.
In cohesive and functional teams the pride comes from just being a part of the team. Members champion the cause of the team as a whole and each member individually. Team member Jenny’s graduation is ours. In a real sense it might be because we helped so much with her research projects and proof reading her submissions!
That is the spirit that fuels high performing teams and tightly connected groups.
Meanwhile, back in dysfunctional land, Desmond has been like a zombie since he was passed over for the Team Leader role. He might not openly tear down what Martha puts forward but his lack of interest cannot be missed. It is also noticeable that people who were close to Desmond and who felt that he should have got the promotion are also not engaged. The separation is not only mental as they have now started to eat as a clique in a corner of the lunch room.
This team is on a downward spiral and the impact will soon be evident in their key performance indicators (KPIs).
Unfortunately, it is Martha’s responsibility as Team Leader to solve the problem. She may not have appointed herself but now it is her job to get the best from her team.
She needs to have a heart-to-heart talk with Desmond. She can share that she has observed that he is not the dynamic, vibrant person of three months ago and she would like to discuss the change. She needs to steer clear of even a hint of accusation with respect to his lack of support.
One strategy that might work well for Martha is for her to find some solution – a role, maybe – that helps Desmond to save face and feel better about himself. Could she identify a discrete part of her responsibility and invite him to take charge of it without weakening her authority?
That could produce the benefits of getting Desmond engaged once more while giving her the opportunity to focus on other areas. Of course, if Desmond messes up that would provide grounds for another conversation.
Leading teams is a challenging endeavor that requires a cross-section of well-developed competences. Formal ongoing professional development is essential.
Trevor E S Smith is a Behaviour Modification Coach with the Success with People Academy which is recognized by the Society for Human Resource Management (SHRM) to offer Professional Development Credits (PDCs) for the SHRM-CPSM or SHRM-SCPSM Certifications.
Home of the ICF accredited “Certified Behavioural Coach Award.”
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Psychometric Testing In Aid Of Recruitment
A simple case study
Let us assume that you want to hire a general purpose handy-man. You want someone who can use a paint brush, a trowel, a screwdriver and a chisel. As you screen applicants your choice will be influenced by the level of dexterity of the candidate with the tool that is most important to the completion of your job. If painting is your top priority then the guy who is most handy with the paint brush would get the nod – other things being equal.
Similar thinking is applied to any job selection process. The person you choose to serve as a sergeant major for the war in Afghanistan is not likely to fit the role of being the guidance counsellor at a high school for girls.
Why psychometric testing?
Each job requires the use of certain behavioural tools to achieve best results. Like handy-men, while we may use a variety of behavioural tools, we tend to be more comfortable using some than others. Some behaviours take more energy from us. We can perform them but they wear us out more quickly than behaviours with which we are more comfortable.
Hence the role of psychometric testing. It assists us in aligning jobs with individuals who are more comfortable using the behavioural tools that are important to the successful completion of the related tasks. The goal is not to use psychometric testing as the sole criterion for selection. However, it provides some insight into areas in which applicants will need more or less energy to get given tasks done.
One of the great benefits of psychometric assessment is the fact that it provides employers with a guide as to how to get best results from new hires. It can take months by trial and error until a new hire finally settles in and performs at their best. A sophisticated behavioural profile equips employers and new hires with the information to enhance performance from the first day at work.
Grounds for resistance to psychometric testing
However, there is a school of thought that suggests that psychometric testing should not be used in the recruitment process because of a concern that employees are more likely to lie at that time than at any other period of their association with the organization. The concern then is that the psychometric assessments might influence the organization to make decisions on the basis of faked results.
It should be noted that the research does not claim that most applicants will lie during the recruitment process. It only suggests that if one is going to be dishonest, it is most likely to happen during the recruitment process. If a high percentage of your organization’s applicants feel disposed to lie then avoiding the use of psychometric tests is hardly the answer to a much bigger problem.
Also, we should consider the logical extension that applicants who are given to cheating on their psychometric tests are also likely to lie in the interview and maybe even with their documentation. However, organizations still interview and opt to ramp up their interviewing skills.
The great news is that there are assessment instruments that structure their questionnaires in such a way as to make cheating risky and very difficult to pay off. These more sophisticated tools also produce reports that reveal two profiles of the individual. One profile reflects the image the individual thinks s/he ought to portray. The other profile is the individual’s natural (or hidden) profile. This kind of assessment has a high degree of correlation with the behaviours that are exhibited post-employment.
Why psychometric testing still adds value
There is another important consideration.
Best practice in performance coaching advises individuals to adopt certain “roles” that are best suited to achieving desired results in given situations. “Act as if…” becomes the key philosophy. No successful coach advises individuals to “always be yourself” in the work environment. That would be a prescription for chaos.
Role playing is a key to successful performance on the job! Organizations expend much effort in getting team members to play appropriate roles when at work.
What does this mean?
Organizations that use psychometric testing as an aid in the recruitment process will either be selecting individuals who genuinely display the behavioural preferences that are desired or who have been able to fake them.
Since, playing the right role is what is required of all team members, the organization that uses psychometric testing is ahead of the game because new hires will either be naturally inclined to play the desired roles or are clever enough to identify and mimic the in-demand behaviours.
Organizations who fail to use sophisticated psychological assessment tools are left to rely on intuition and periods of feeling out new hires before creating the conditions that maximize performance. Being spooked by a small percentage of potential cheats is not a good enough reason to miss out on the overwhelming benefits of psychometric testing in recruitment.
TrevorESSmith
About the author
TrevorESSmith is a Joint-venture partner with Extended DISC International. He is a founding director of the Success with People Academy and the INFOSERV Group. The Success with People Academy provides performance enhancing solutions for individuals, teams and organizations. It facilitates success with and through people.
Young persons who are placed in positions where they have to lead older persons consistently complain about the challenges that they face. Getting acceptance can be a drain on their productivity and the performance of the team.
Case studies of young persons being given the responsibility to lead their elders suggest that relying on Dominance and Influence as their preferred leadership style produced positive results.
A “I am just another member of the team” S-style approach seems to backfire as some elements who thought that they should have been given the position put up resistance. Others demand that the young leader earn their respect.
The C-style resort to using the authority of the position to get compliance fails to get the buy-in that makes all the difference in highly successful teams.
So, a demonstration of a willingness to use an iron fist carefully integrated with friendly outstretched arms seems to work best.
There is a school of thought that anything but strong, dominant leadership limits the chances for success.
Jim Collins – “Good to Great” suggests that sustainable success has been achieved by a more consultative, S-style leadership.
However, case studies like Moses and Aaron and the outcomes of their action tend to prolong the debate about the value of dominance as a leadership strategy.
Moses’ Dominant-style seems to have worked better in getting “followers” to remain true to the game plan than Aaron’s Influencer-style. Aaron allowed the people to talk him into allowing them to create man-made Gods.
On the other hand, Moses showed strength and firm leadership to put down the Dathan, Abiram rebellion.
Does that make the D-style “better”? No, each style works best in given situations and terribly in others.
“The hands that rock the cradle rule the world.”
The majority of care givers and early childhood practitioners have a preference for the Reserved/People Oriented or S-Style behaviour.
It means that the persons responsible for the socialization process in the critical early stages bring a conservative and risk-averse philosophy to the task.
Examples of S-Style mantra include:
“One thing at a time and that done well”. This flies in the face in the demand for multi-tasking in the rat race world in which we live.
Another favourite is: “When a job has been begun, never leave it till tis done.” One would need to have the uncanny skill to start the most important job all the time and that it remains the most valuable use of your time throughout the completion process.
S-style behaviour in the D-I-S-C Framework is the counterpoint to adventurous characteristic of the D-style – Steadiness versus Dominance.
Does S-Style socialization dampen entrepreneurial fervor? What are your thoughts?