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Renewing the mind
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Here are two serious questions for you:
1. What is it that motivates you to change?
2. If you don’t like the results you are getting, What will motivate you to change the actions you are taking?
If you ask a smoker to quit his 10 year long habit and not smoke anymore for the rest of his life, you probably will get much resistance. Until the smoker experiences something drastic in their own life, he probably won’t be willing to quit.
It would take something like seeing a friend pass away from lung cancer. Or maybe the smoker doesn’t want to see their own children follow in their footsteps.
Until something DRASTIC happens in their life, until the smoker first experiences PAIN as a result of smoking — change is UNLIKELY to take place in the person’s life.
The same is true with just about anything, though…
Perhaps you’re in an unhappy relationship.
Perhaps your career isn’t bringing you the level of success you have always wanted.
Perhaps you are trying to build a business of your own but so far, all you seem to do is spend money, not
make it.
How can you change these patterns?
How can you motivate yourself for big change in your finances, your health, or even your relationships?
The secret is simple…
“It requires an EXTREME effort. It requires ACTION!”
This means that you MUST completely abandon your OLD HABITS and start with a 180 degree different approach that will bring you what you want in your life.
Change is often painful by itself, though. But you can get through it if you have someone to support you both physically and emotionally. Someone who helps you get what you truly want in life.
Go ahead and do yourself a favor. Ask yourself the following:
A. Who are the people in your life that love you and want to see you grow?
B. Who are the people in your life who are willing to do whatever it takes to see you achieve what you want in life?
C. Who are the people in your life who would like to make the same changes you are making in your life?
Identify them. Tell them the changes you want to make.
Ask them for their support. Create a support group.
Network with them. Take your life to the next level.
This is how you grow.
This is how you are able to achieve success in your life.
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Employ the never before published TENT Framework to steer your actions along the pathway that leads to happiness.
Get ready to R.O.M.P. your way to sustained bliss in your marriage!
Be alert to the 7-point Crisis Spotting Framework for identifying if your relationship is going off-track and heading into trouble.
Let go and avoid a major threat to marital happiness. Taking “Forgiveness: The Wonder Drug” might be the saviour of your marriage.
Remember that Kids don’t say “I do.” This is a sensitive issue that has implications for how marriages progress.
Establish By-laws for In-laws. Unfortunately, marriage is not just about the two partners.
Take heed, in the event, that your relationship is on rocky ground. “Don’t let Fear steal your chance for a happy marriage!” provides practical step-by-step advice as to how to restore your marriage.
Get encouragement for your own marriage from a chapter that is worth its weight in gold: “How I spruced up my 30-year marriage”.
“Other words of wisdom” is a collection of transformational quotes.
Make this transformational book work for you and your partner.
Be sure to complete the exercises and follow the principles consistently for at least 30 days. If you mess up, start re-counting from the next day, until you can honestly say that you have completed 30 consecutive days following the guidelines.
Use a neat trick by having you and your partner keep tracking notes separately. Unfortunately, if one breaks the ground rules or fails to complete an exercise, both of you have to re-start the 30-day countdown.
Plan a major event to share the results over candlelight dinner at the end of your completed 30 day-journey of further development or restoration.
Do not be frustrated by the failure of your partner to buy into the process.
In the event of flat refusal to participate go forward on a solo journey.
Also, pay special attention to the chapters that deal with relationships that might be going off-track.
About Success in Marriage
If you reflect on medication, you will readily agree that it is not the size of capsule or tablet that determines the effectiveness of the medicine. It is the potency that counts.
Success in Marriage is a potent guide to keeping your marriage fresh and for restoring troubled relationships.
If you follow the regime that is outlined, we guarantee that you will light a special spark in your marriage.
Success in Marriage represents original content. This is not a rehash of Google search output. The frameworks are the product of years of practical distillation.
Success in Marriage is designed to assist couples, counsellors and concerned individuals in a battle to restore joy to marriages and to combat the increasing prevalence of divorces.
Our approach is to guide you through processes of reflection, introspection, realignment and renewal. The presentation style is that of supporting you in self-discovery.
This is not a thriller novel where you race through the pages. Our objective is to invite you to be actively engaged with the material as you discover new ways of being that will guarantee the success of your marriage.
This is one of the most thoughtful gifts that you could give to yourself, your partner, your pastor, counsellors, your married friends and anyone planning to get married.
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Read Kindle books on your PC without a Kindle. Convenient download right here: http://tinyurl.com/33wwd5b
Success in Marriage is a collection of powerful frameworks and high impact counselling that is guaranteed to guide you to increased Success in Marriage.
Employ the never before published TENT Framework to steer your actions along the pathway that leads to happiness.
Get ready to R.O.M.P. your way to sustained bliss in your marriage!
Be alert to the 7-point Crisis Spotting Framework for identifying if your relationship is going off-track and heading into trouble.
Let go and avoid a major threat to marital happiness. Taking “Forgiveness: The Wonder Drug” might be the saviour of your marriage.
Remember that Kids don’t say “I do.” This is a sensitive issue that has implications for how marriages progress.
Establish By-laws for In-laws. Unfortunately, marriage is not just about the two partners.
Take heed, in the event, that your relationship is on rocky ground. “Don’t let Fear steal your chance for a happy marriage!” provides practical step-by-step advice as to how to restore your marriage.
Get encouragement for your own marriage from a chapter that is worth its weight in gold: “How I spruced up my 30-year marriage”.
“Other words of wisdom” is a collection of transformational quotes.
Make this transformational book work for you and your partner.
Be sure to complete the exercises and follow the principles consistently for at least 30 days. If you mess up, start re-counting from the next day, until you can honestly say that you have completed 30 consecutive days following the guidelines.
Use a neat trick by having you and your partner keep tracking notes separately. Unfortunately, if one breaks the ground rules or fails to complete an exercise, both of you have to re-start the 30-day countdown.
Plan a major event to share the results over candlelight dinner at the end of your completed 30 day-journey of further development or restoration.
Do not be frustrated by the failure of your partner to buy into the process.
In the event of flat refusal to participate go forward on a solo journey.
Also, pay special attention to the chapters that deal with relationships that might be going off-track.
About Success in Marriage
If you reflect on medication, you will readily agree that it is not the size of capsule or tablet that determines the effectiveness of the medicine. It is the potency that counts.
Success in Marriage is a potent guide to keeping your marriage fresh and for restoring troubled relationships.
If you follow the regime that is outlined, we guarantee that you will light a special spark in your marriage.
Success in Marriage represents original content. This is not a rehash of Google search output. The frameworks are the product of years of practical distillation.
Success in Marriage is designed to assist couples, counsellors and concerned individuals in a battle to restore joy to marriages and to combat the increasing prevalence of divorces.
Our approach is to guide you through processes of reflection, introspection, realignment and renewal. The presentation style is that of supporting you in self-discovery.
This is not a thriller novel where you race through the pages. Our objective is to invite you to be actively engaged with the material as you discover new ways of being that will guarantee the success of your marriage.
This is one of the most thoughtful gifts that you could give to yourself, your partner, your pastor, counsellors, your married friends and anyone planning to get married.
Amazon now has a FREE KindlePC converter that allows you to read Kindle books on your PC:Link provided below
Order “Success in Marriage” through Amazon here.
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Is your path to success driven by Affirmations or Afformations?
I draw your attention to perhaps the single most important distinction that you can make in your quest for success in any endeavour.
Team huddles are marked by the repetition of strong affirmations. Clenched fists reinforce a conscious commitment to achieving some objective or goal.
Make no mistake! Affirmations are ingrained in our culture as a key to attaining high performance levels. And they work to some degree. They keep our goals in focus and motivate us at the conscious level.
The challenge with affirmations is that sustained results are really controlled at the subconscious level. The subconscious records all our actions and identifies patterns of behaviour that it uses to formulate an image of who we are. This image that is etched into our subconscious plays a significant role in determining our future actions.
We are all fitted with an internal “teleprompter”. Our teleprompter throws up thoughts, words and actions for us to use. Right now, a range of those are coming into your head. Your teleprompter is at work.
Now, you will notice that your teleprompter usually presents content that it thinks will be appealing to you. It does not want to waste energy producing material that you will not use. No point prompting me to investigate bungee jumping. Wasted prompt!
What happens in reality is that your teleprompter is directed by your subconscious which has a record of your every thought, word and deed. So the teleprompter is guided to motivate you to think thoughts, speak words and perform actions that are aligned to the image that your subconscious has of you.
That is why behavioural change is so difficult. While we are reciting affirmations at the conscious level the subconscious is funnelling invitations to our conscious mind that might be diametrically opposed to the affirmations.
Hypnosis guru Gerald Kein has developed a wonderful diagram to depict the gate-keeping role of the subconscious in blocking out new ideas and contrary actions that come from our conscious minds.
The Kein Mind Model in Transformation
That explains why so many weight loss projects fail all too soon. The same thing with fitness programmes. We march into those projects with affirmations in tow. However, the subconscious crowds out the affirmations with prompts that fit the image that is etched into it.
That is why the distinction between affirmations and Afformations is so vitally important in your quest for success. Afformations is a clever technique for bypassing the gate-keeper to the subconscious mind and getting ideas into your teleprompter that would normally be blocked.
The technique tricks the gate-keeper whose role is to stop new ideas that come from your conscious thoughts from interfering with what your subconscious has grown used to accepting as reality.
Afformations use the way our minds work to lead us to success, higher levels of performance, happiness, health and self-actualization.
The mind is trained is find answers to questions that are asked of it. It is in automatic research mode. Its job is to find answers. So, the secret to success then, is to ask our minds the right questions!
Have you ever misplaced something or had a name on the tip of your tongue for a while? You then give up in frustration and move to something else. Bingo: “I remember now…” You left your mind to find the answer and it did.
That is how Afformations work. Ask the right (empowering) questions and move on so that your mind gets the opportunity to find the answers. Do NOT interfere. That would be like storming around fuming in search of the misplaced item. Ask your empowering questions and move on!
I am a firm believer in the effectiveness of Afformations in support of believing prayer.
If the goal is to be a great spouse, you raise it in prayer and afform it in the form of this type of empowering question: “Why am I such a thoughtful, caring spouse?”
Resist the urge to give up because of the flood of prompts from the subconscious that questions how you could even think that given the historical situation. Your job is to ask the empowering questions repeatedly and leave the answers to your mind.
This much is true. Show me the output of your teleprompter and I will tell you where you have been and where you are headed. Start re-programming your subconscious today with empowering Afformations!
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