How we file or process life’s events dictate how we respond to them.
Smoking kills: I quit. Smoking is hip: I smoke.
Mind control = File it right to get it right.
We can turn the other cheek as long as we do not file the incident as a brutal attack on our person. That prompts us to retaliate.
We should train ourselves to put a desirable face on unfolding events. We will be amazed at how much better we respond to them.